If there is one predictable question that people ask at the end of
retreats, it is: “How can I sustain the practice once the retreat is
over and I' m back in the world of violence, greed, starving children,
poor health care, and not enough parking space?” This is a
wonderful question because it requires us to pay attention to the
skillful desire to integrate our spiritual practice into our daily
lives. For spiritual life to develop, there' s no need to become a
“retreat junkie,” begrudgingly tolerating the periods when we
have to deal with family and work just so that we can gather
enough time and resources to go on retreat again. Probably more
useful than this is making a commitment to establish a basis of
moral conduct in daily life. In this light, the five precepts are
offered not as rigid commandments but as guidelines for living.
They are practical strategies to help us exist and function more
harmoniously.
I could suggest many ways to sustain the spirit of retreat after
you leave here, ranging from meditating daily to creating a sacred
space somewhere in your home. But the single most important
guidance I can offer is this: along with internalizing the three
refuges (as was talked about in Chapter Six) I would encourage
you to cherish the five precepts deeply. Abide by them as a devotional
practice, as a mindfulness practice, as a concentration
practice, and as a practice of conduct. All these different elements
are contained within these simple principles. Taking the
precepts is an act of arousing the intention to accord with and to
be as kind as possible to yourself and to the world around you.
When visitors go to monasteries in Theravaµda countries, it is
customary for them to take the refuges and precepts as a simple
and regular reminder. In the West, we take them at the beginning
and ending of retreats, at daylong sittings, and even before
Sangha meetings. Taking precepts is not a one-shot deal, as if
when we take them they transform us forever—not at all. They
are principles that require constant recollection, cultivation, and
exploration. Wisdom can develop only in a mind that is continually
reoriented and grounded in truth and selflessness.
Two Kinds of People
Two kinds of people are described in the Theravaµda scriptures:
puggalas and manussas. Being a puggala means that you have a
human body but might not be fully human—internally you
might be operating more like an animal or a hungry ghost. If you
are a manussa, you are truly human. In Buddhist cosmology the
realms of existence are divided into the heavens (devas), the jealous
gods (asuras), the animals, the hungry ghosts (petas), the
denizens of hell (niraya), and the humans. To be born in the
human division of the six realms means that you are a manussa.
A manussa is one who lives at least according to the five precepts.
That is to say, the chief characteristic of one who is truly
human is the quality of virtue, of beautiful conduct.
I find this to be a helpful reflection and one that we can test
for ourselves: when we behave in ways that are ugly, selfish,
cruel, or greedy, what does that feel like? At those times we are
less than human; we are out of harmony with life; we feel bad
about ourselves. There is an imbalance in the system. The heart
can't open in the midst of this chaos.
We can also see for ourselves what happens when we behave
in kind and skillful ways. What does that feel like? We feel good
about ourselves, and there's a sense of harmony with all things.
The heart is open and receptive to the whole panoply of life. We
still may be ignorant in many ways, and still prone to all kinds
of suffering, but to have this basic sensitivity and nobility of conduct
is synonymous with true humanity.
A Natural Law
The five precepts were not just conjured up by the Buddha. They
are part of the natural order. They aren' t imposed as a Buddhist
idea, nor are they unique to the Buddhist tradition. Every country
in the world has laws that enable human beings to function
freely and harmoniously. These laws relate to respect for human
life, to property, to the appropriate use of sexuality, and to honesty.
The Buddha pointed out that they are innate to the human
condition. If we take life, if we misappropriate things, if we take
advantage of others—through our sexuality or by living indulgently
—if we are deceitful or aggressive, harmful with our
speech, then pain intrinsically will follow. In the opening verses
of the Dhammapada it says, “If you speak or act with a corrupt
mind, then pain will follow like the wheels of the cart following
the ox that pulls it.” The Buddha referred to these precepts as
pakati-si µla—natural or genuine virtue. They are contrasted with
pan\ n\ atti-si µla—prescribed ethics—which are the product of local
customs and religions or rules peculiar to certain professions.
I like to compare the five precepts to the drivers manual in
a new car: “Congratulations! You are now the proud owner of a
human life. Let me introduce you to your vehicle.” Well, perhaps
they' re not so much like a driver's manual as they are like road
signs, such as dangerous curve or do not enter wrong
way or slow. Try to understand the precepts in this way. They
are road signs for our life as human beings. They help us look and
see that “life is really this way, not that way.”
These signs protect us from danger. They warn us where the
obstacles are and help the heart stay on track. Perhaps you've
noticed that if you don' t follow the road signs, you tend to get lost,
problems start to multiply, and there is a lot of tension and frustration
involved. But when you pay attention and follow the laws and
road signs, there's flexibility, sensitivity to time and place, and we
usually get where we're going. The precepts should be understood
in exactly the same way. We pick them up and use them as helpful
guides through the areas of life where we lose our way most easily,
where there is the most emotional charge: around issues of life and
death, around property and ownership, around sexuality, around
honesty and deceit, around speech and communication.
The Fifth Precept
It' s interesting that when the Buddha describes the moral precepts,
he often doesn' t actually mention the fifth one. The
Buddha did not always label the precept against using intoxicants
as intrinsically moral. When I say this, some people perk up and
get very interested! The point, though, is that when the mind is
in a heedless state, it is much easier to fall headlong into the first
four danger zones than it is when the mind is attentive, balanced,
and undrugged. To continue the driving analogy: just consider the
number of accidents caused by people under the influence of drink
and other intoxicants. So it may be that we wouldn' t experience
the inescapable negative karmic result that we would, say, when
telling a deliberate lie, but the precept against using intoxicants is
included in the five because it' s a linchpin for all the others—when
it goes, the wheels start to wobble.
For myself, I like to encourage the understanding of the fifth
precept "“I undertake the precept to refrain from consuming intoxicating
drink and drugs which lead to carelessness ”to be a
refraining from consuming the substances at all, not just a refraining
from intoxication. It' s a favorite idea, isn' t it, to think, “Just to
have a beer now and then, or a glass of wine with dinner, that' s not
against the precepts, is it?” Quite, honestly, I' d say that it is.
To have the standard of abstinence is a great kindness to yourself
and a kindness to other people by the example that you set.
I' m not asking people to be rigid or fanatical about it, but it can
be extremely helpful for ourselves to make a clear commitment.
It is like saying, “Mindfulness is a precious and fragile commodity,
why endanger or weaken it?” So, personally, I try to encourage
a strict observance of the precepts, including that of refraining
from intoxicants. This is out of no reason other than my love for
you and all other beings. You will find it is the most helpful support
to all dimensions of Buddhist practice to respect the precepts
in this way.
Sila Is Another Word for Happiness
The five precepts are not about morality alone. They are also a
great mindfulness tool. We don' t get a signal when we start to
drift from rigpa to marigpa, from clear awareness to heedlessness,
do we? It' s not as though we have a little warning light
on the dashboard for when a defilement or some deluded state
comes into existence. It is not like when you create a document
on your computer and the machine prints the file name
and path, the date you wrote it, and so forth. “This is a greed
condition, third degree, generated at 15:41, 1-6-02.” “This is a
self-based deluded condition. . .” They are not tagged like that.
But when we give our hearts to the precepts and really
respect them, they let us know, they give a warning. As the
heart drifts unwittingly into unawareness, deluded attractions,
and aversions, there' s a warning buzz in the system. It enables
the heart to wake up before we lose sight of our innate purity,
before the negative states have been compounded, and before
we get ourselves into trouble. To go back to the driving analogy,
they are like the serrated strip at the side of the freeway that
makes the wheels vibrate when we drift too far toward the
hard shoulder: “Oops! Dozed off for a moment there. How did
that happen? Better brighten up or I' ll be in trouble and never
make it.”
After the recitation of the precepts, the person who is giving
them chants:
Sila is the source of happiness,
sila is the source of true wealth,
sila is the cause of peacefulness,
therefore, let sila be purified.
So this is all about how to be happy. We take these principles
of kindness and virtue to heart and let them guide us. The
cradle of Dharma stays with us.
It is a portable retreat.
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