Amaravati Buddhist Monastery
Family Events
Code of Conduct
This document is mainly for clarifying and supporting the child
protection policy. This is a brief outline of expected conduct,
the precepts really do cover this, especially when interpreted as
the family campers have done as follows:-
The first precept guards against all forms of harm, as well as,
most obviously, physical abuse.
The second guards against neglect and some forms of emotional
abuse.
The third guards against sexual abuse.
The fourth against emotional and psychological abuse.
The fifth helps us to be steadfast in practising the others.
These guidelines are encouragement, that we all need
to play a part in the safety and well being of the children and
young people that come to Amaravati family events. Its is extremely
important to not investigate any alleged abuse but to refer
– do not ask questions of the child, parent or anybody
else as this may jeopardise a police investigation.
Never think abuse is impossible within the monastery environment
or that accusation against someone you know well and trust is bound
to be wrong.
- play your part in helping to develop an ethos where all people
matter and are treated equally, and with respect and dignity.
Always put the care, welfare and safety needs of a child first
- .respect a child’s right to be involved in making choices
and decisions which directly affect them
- listen attentively to any ideas and views a child wants to share
with you.
- respect a child’s culture (for example their faith and
religious beliefs).
- respect a child’s right to privacy and personal space.
- respond sensitively to children who seem anxious about participating
in certain activities.
- speak to the child protection office immediately if you suspect
that a child is experiencing bullying or harassment.
- ensure that when you are working with children you are at least
within sight or hearing of other adults.
- listen carefully to any child who ‘tells you’ (sometimes
through drawings and behaviour as well as words) that they are
- being harmed and report what you have discovered immediately
to the child protection officer.
- report immediately to the child protection officer any suspicion
that a child could be at risk of harm or abuse.
- never dismiss what a child tells you as ‘lies’ or
exaggeration.
- only restrain a child who is at imminent risk of inflicting
harm to themselves or others or is at risk of damaging property.
- never underestimate the contribution that you can make to the
development of safe communities for children.
- exaggerate or trivialise another worker’s concerns about
a child or ignore an allegation or suspicion of abuse in the hope
that it will either ‘go away’ or that ‘someone
else will deal with it’
- be drawn into any derogatory remarks or gestures in front of
children or young persons.
- allow a child, young person or adult to be bullied or harmed
by anyone in the organisation.
- allow children to swear or use sexualised language unchallenged.
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